Community Guidelines

Consent is enthusiastic, informed, specific and freely given, and it can be withdrawn at any moment without explanation. Agreeing to attend an event is not consent to anything that happens there. Interest in a profile is not consent to contact beyond the platform. When in doubt, ask, and take a "no" or a silence as a no.

• Read the house rules of an event and follow them without argument.
• Never pressure, guilt trip, bargain or persist after someone declines.
• Do not photograph or film anyone without their clear permission, at an event or anywhere else.
• Alcohol or drugs never turn a no into a yes. Someone who cannot consent clearly cannot consent.
• Organisers set the tone. If you host, be ready to intervene and to remove anyone who crosses a line.

Everyone here must be 18 or over, and everyone depicted in any photo or video must be an adult who agreed to appear. Content involving a minor, in any form, real or simulated, is removed on sight, the account is terminated, and the matter is reported to the competent authorities.

• Use recent photos of yourself. No stolen, borrowed, AI generated or heavily misleading images.
• Describe yourself, your relationship status and your intentions accurately.
• Organisers: describe the event truthfully, including the setting, the crowd, entry conditions, capacity and any cost. Update the listing when something changes, and cancel it if the event will not happen.
• Do not create multiple accounts to get around a decline, a block or a suspension.

Threats, insults, hate speech, sexual messages to people who did not invite them, repeated contact after a block, and unsolicited explicit images are all forbidden. Never publish or forward another person's name, address, workplace, photos, screenshots or messages. What you see here stays here.

Members are not indexed by search engines and private events stay out of public listings for a reason. Treat every profile, address and conversation as confidential. Assume that anyone you meet here has good reasons for wanting privacy, and protect it as carefully as you protect your own.

No trafficking, coercion or exploitation. No illegal commercial sexual services. No illegal drugs. No violence or weapons beyond consensual, negotiated, safe practice between informed adults. No impersonation, spam, scams or attempts to move people to fraudulent sites. Organisers are responsible for holding every permit and licence their event requires.

Every listing has a Report button, and you can block any member from a conversation so they can no longer reach you. For anything illegal or infringing, use our report page or email contact@sex-events.com. Reports are reviewed by a human. If someone is in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services first.

Depending on severity and history, we may edit or hide a listing, remove content, warn an account, restrict features, suspend or permanently terminate an account, and where the law requires it, inform the competent authorities. Serious breaches, in particular anything involving minors, non-consent or coercion, lead to immediate termination without warning. Decisions are explained where we are required to do so, and you can respond by writing to contact@sex-events.com.

These guidelines sit alongside our Terms of Service and our Privacy Policy.